Just breath.In,out,in and out again.It may not have really helped but that’s a breather,to think clearly.Things might not be going according to your imagnations.You got into this,this relationship.Just breath.Even on a rainy day,there are the positive sides:how you relax when you breath in the soil’s scent,the rainbow that comes out after the sun passes through the rain droplets.Maybe,just maybe we affected and want what we see on social posts,in books.What is in the books is a picture of an imagination(even though some are true a bit of fantasy is added)that’s why it doesn’t necessarily come true and it becomes soo hard matchin to that.It is like cartoons or animations,they ain’t real but somehow we see realness in them.You see things might be going way deeper south than north and that that is okay.Once in a while or twice or thrice no matter the time this must happen.Even the ferris wheel goes up and comes down.This does not mean you have to give up on you two and go for someone new because sometimes we give up and try looking for someone to match your previous.Then in the end we go back to them and seem desperate by others or wrong choice.We ourselves know better.
You can hold on if you:
Why did you get into this in the first place?Hope it wasn’t forced.That’s the worst reason.Some relationships are able to keep the fire burning coz they didn’t expect it and they fell in love.Your reason for being there counts a lot.
2)Remember the moments
All the moments let them flash and run through your mind.The sad ones where anger took over and ego was the judge,the laughter on stupid pictures,movies,the sing alongs.These moments are what make relationships and both of you special hence wanting more of these times.
3)See and feel happiness there
Happiness.That person makes you smile without knowing,laugh at how stupid or idiotic they are,cry because of the little yet sweet gifts they bring for you.Coz let’s be real that is something that is not that easy to find especially in this generation.Just enjoy and feel the moment.
If that person makes you a better you,makes all feelings surface again,that is someone worth it and holding onto.All you have to do is breath,take a cup of tea,think and see how much you want this and if that special person is worth holding their hand again.Just remember we got a similarity to the many novels:they show a story,like our lives where there are characters,times,moments,chapters.This is just one of the bad times,terrible chapters and horrible moments and it will pass.